Its was written in shorthand so its hard to read. Don't try to fill the silence and rush to say something like "but I know you are super busy. They know that they are the best. I keep the positive thought that it will get better. Communication is crucial, and even if we don't see each other for several days at a time, it's important to be on the same page. That my heavenly father hates my decision to marry my husband. I have spent my life alone waiting for things to get better. I have many friends and members of my family who married within the church and later divorced. At the end of the second date I knew I needed him in my life. I can understand his desire to spend time together to reconnect, but right now it really isn't there.
I'm sorry you may be hearing a lot of negativity from us. Medical school and residency is really intense, and I think it's pretty common for doctors to get married a little later in life than the average couple. If she identifies as a Mormon, then she probably takes her faith seriously, and it means a lot to her. Everything we do when we are together seems to be pre-planned and must be executed just so, right down to unexpectedly turning off the lights at And I can relate to the walking on eggshells feeling when they are home. So yea, I blame residency for his general 'unavailability', and I would assume that is the case with your guy too. We are long distance, and it is hard, because when we are together I spend much of time alone waiting for him to come back from the hospital. I wish I know things better and would have taken a different path in life. Maybe you do, too. There are a million fish in the sea and it makes no sense to choose one with whom you are not religiously compatible. Log into your account.
He has cheated on me and promises he won't do it anymore. See if you can become involved only if it follows your strengths and desires. I've read through some stuff there and it all seems pretty tame so far. We have still not decided about us, since it is at a very early stage. When my husband and I were sealed, I finally understood why my Dad had been stressing this to me my entire life. I don't think it's going overboard, though, to state one very possible and very likely scenario, and that is that this girl may likely be completely indoctrinated and believing. I definitely don't want to lead her on. I am a non-Mormon woman married to a Mormon manвwhich seems to be a less common scenario in the LDS world. No nagging, no emotional neediness, etc. I almost left the marriage,3xs.
Stick around on this sub. Several of the apostles have grown up in part member homes. My boyfriend and I are both in medical school and it is so difficult to manage a relationship while surviving the class load. The important things that keep our marriage a happy, healthy, and very loving one are the same things that keep any other marriage alive and well. Do you truly believe in temple marriage as a requirement for Celestial attainment.